Wednesday, November 21, 2012

husband complained about wife to the PRophet sallallahu alayhe wasallam

husband complained about wife to the PRophet sallallahu alayhe wasallam: this is really a great narration shaykhah umm salamah shared in her lecture with us in our last event. 

one of the sahabah was praying and he lost his wudhu during the salah, so his wife said to him, there is no salah for one who lost wudhu until he makes the wudhu again and repeats the salah. the sahabah was bothered by the advice of the wife, so he went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhe wasallam and complained saying that his wife bothers him. so the wife mentioned what she did and the Prophet sallallahu alayhe wa sallam told him, she didn't tell you except that which is good. 

shaykhah umm salamah shared this story on the section about: how a woman if she has knowledge, she can benefit her husband! And you can see how a husband can benefit from his wife if he doesn't know and how ISlam encourages it. Blessings of Allah, celebrate Islam's blessings. HONEST! 

Did you read this book: Bread Giver, it tells you how the jews women cannot read anything of their religion, they don't worship their gods etc, only the men/husbands do it and so if she is good to her husband, she will enter paradise otherwise, NOOOO. therefore, the jews rabies stay in the house, studies their deen, eats the best food, gets the best of everything while his wife and daughters work and feed him to enter paradise. if only he had sons, then he would have companies in his religious studies otherwise he is on his own.

shocked! these women are 100% oppressed in the matters of the deen and the duniyah. Muslim WOmen celebrate the blessings of ISlam. Alhamdulillah.

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Where are we with regard to fulfilling the needs of the Muslims, relieving their distress, and covering them (i.e. their faults)?


My Beloveds: Where are we with regard to fulfilling the needs of the Muslims, relieving their distress, and covering them (i.e. their faults)? 

Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhe wa sallam) said:

"A Muslim is a brother of another Muslim. So he should not oppress him nor should he hand him over to (his satan or to his self which is inclined to evil). Whoever fulfills the needs of his brother, Allah will fulfill his needs; whoever removes the troubles of his brother, Allah will remove one of his troubles on the Day of Resurrection; and whoever covers up the fault of a Muslim, Allah will cover up his fault on the Day of Resurrection" (Al-Bukhari and Muslim).

"From the Best action is to bring happiness to a believer, to pay off a debt from him, to fulfill a need for him, and to relieve a hardship from him" (The narrator: Muhammad bin Munkader, The hadith scholar: Al-Albanee, The source: Sahih Al-Jamea, The Page or Number: 5897, Summary of the grading: Authentic).

أحبتي :و أين نحن من قضاء حوائج المسلمين و تفريج همهم و سترهم ؟

فقد قال صلى الله عليه وسلم:
(( المسلم أخو المسلم ، لا يظلمه ولا يسلمه ، ومن كان في حاجة أخيه كان الله في حاجته ، ومن فرج عن مسلم كربة ، فرج الله عنه بها كربة من كرب يوم القيامة ، ومن ستر مسلما ، ستره الله يوم القيامة)) الراوي: عبدالله بن عمر المحدث: الألباني - المصدر: صحيح الجامع - الصفحة أو الرقم: 6707
خلاصة الدرجة: صحيح


((من أفضل العمل إدخال السرور على المؤمن ، تقضي عنه دينا ، تقضي له حاجة ، تنفس له كربة))
خلاصة الدرجة: صحيح
((من أفضل العمل إدخال السرور على المؤمن ، تقضي عنه دينا ، تقضي له حاجة ، تنفس له كربة))الراوي: محمد بن المنكدر المحدث: الألباني - المصدر: صحيح الجامع - الصفحة أو الرقم: 5897خلاصة الدرجة: صحيح

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Book Sixteen: The Book of Du'a (Supplications)

Book Seventeen: The Book of the Prohibited Actions


Book Seventeen: The Book of the Prohibited Actions

bulletChapter 254 : The Prohibition of Backbiting and the Commandment of Guarding one's Tongue
bulletChapter 255 : Prohibition of Listening to Backbiting
bulletChapter 256 : Some cases where it is permissible to Backbite
bulletChapter 257 : Prohibition of Calumny
bulletChapter 258 : Prohibition of Carrying tales of the Officers
bulletChapter 259 : Condemnation of Double-faced People
bulletChapter 260 : Condemnation and Prohibition of Falsehood
bulletChapter 261 : Falsehood that is Permissible
bulletChapter 262 : Ascertainment of what one Hears and Narrates
bulletChapter 263 : Prohibition of Giving False Testimony
bulletChapter 264 : Prohibition of Cursing one Particular Man or Animal
bulletChapter 265 : Justification of Cursing the Wrongdoers without Specifying one of them
bulletChapter 266 : Prohibition of Reviling a Muslim without any cause
bulletChapter 267 : Prohibition of Abusing the Deceased without a valid Legal reason approved by Shari'ah
bulletChapter 268 : Prohibition of Maligning
bulletChapter 269 : Prohibition of Nursing Rancor and Enmity
bulletChapter 270 : Prohibition of Envy
bulletChapter 271 : Prohibition of Spying on Muslims and to be Inquisitive about Others
bulletChapter 272 : Prohibition of Suspicion
bulletChapter 273 : Prohibition of Despising Muslims
bulletChapter 274 : Prohibition of Rejoicing over another's Trouble
bulletChapter 275 : Prohibition of Deriding one's Lineage
bulletChapter 276 : Prohibition of Deceiving others
bulletChapter 277 : Prohibition of the Treachery and Breaking one's Covenant
bulletChapter 278 : Prohibition of Recounting of Favors
bulletChapter 279 : Prohibition of Arrogance and Oppression
bulletChapter 280 : Prohibition of Breaking ties and Relationships
bulletChapter 281 : Prohibition of two Holding Secret Counsel to the Exclusion of Conversing together a Third 
bulletChapter 282 : Prohibition of Cruelty 
bulletChapter 283 : Prohibition of Chastisement with Fire 
bulletChapter 284 : Prohibition of Procrastinating by a Rich Person to Fulfill his Obligation 
bulletChapter 285 : Undesirability of giving a Gift and then ask back for it 
bulletChapter 286 : Prohibition of devouring the Property of an Orphan 
bulletChapter 287 : Prohibition of taking Ar-Riba (The Usury) 
bulletChapter 288 : Prohibition of Show-off 
bulletChapter 289 : Things not to be Considered as Showing off 
bulletChapter 290 : Prohibition of gazing at women and Beardless Handsome Boys except in Exigency 
bulletChapter 291 : Prohibition of Meeting a non-Mahram Woman in Seclusion 
bulletChapter 292 : Prohibition for Men and Women apeing one another 
bulletChapter 293 : Prohibition of following the Manners of Satan and Disbelievers 
bulletChapter 294 : Forbidding to Dye Hair Black 
bulletChapter 295 : On Prohibition of Shaving a part of Head 
bulletChapter 296 : Prohibition of Wearing False Hair, Tattooing and Filling of Teeth 
bulletChapter 297 : Prohibition of Plucking Grey Hairs 
bulletChapter 298 : Prohibition of using the right hand for cleaning after toilet without a valid reason
bulletChapter 299 : Undesirability of Wearing one Shoe or Sock
bulletChapter 300 : Prohibition of Leaving the Fire Burning
bulletChapter 301 : Prohibition of putting oneself to Undue Hardship 
bulletChapter 302 : Prohibition of Bewailing the Deceased
bulletChapter 303 : Prohibition of Consultation with Soothsayers
bulletChapter 304 : Forbiddance of Believing in Ill Omens
bulletChapter 305 : Prohibition of Drawing Portraits
bulletChapter 306 : Prohibition of Keeping a Dog except as a Watchdog or Hunting Dog
bulletChapter 307 : Undesirability of Hanging Bells round the Necks of Animals
bulletChapter 308 : Undesirability of Riding a Camel which eats Animals' waste
bulletChapter 309 : Prohibition of Spitting in the Mosque
bulletChapter 310 : Undesirability of Quarrelling or Raising voices in the Mosque 
bulletChapter 311 : Undesirability of Entering the Mosque after Eating raw Onion or Garlic 
bulletChapter 312 : Undesirability of Sitting with Erected Legs during Friday Sermon 
bulletChapter 313 : Prohibition of having a Hair cut or paring one's nail during the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah for one who intends to Sacrifice an Animal 
bulletChapter 314 : Prohibition of Swearing in the name of anything besides Allah 
bulletChapter 315 : Illegality of Swearing Falsely 
bulletChapter 316 : Desirability of Expiating the Oath taken by a Person who afterwards Breaks it for a better Alternative
bulletChapter 317 : Expiation of Oaths 
bulletChapter 318 : Abomination of Swearing in Transaction
bulletChapter 319 : About Begging in the Name of Allah
bulletChapter 320 : Prohibition of Addressing somebody as 'The King of Kings'
bulletChapter 321 : Prohibition of Conferring a Title of Honor upon a Sinner, a Hypocrite, and the Like 
bulletChapter 322 : Undesirability of Reviling Fever 
bulletChapter 323 : Prohibition of Reviling the Wind
bulletChapter 324 : Undesirability of Reviling the Rooster
bulletChapter 325 : Prohibition of Attributing Rain to the Stars
bulletChapter 326 : Prohibition of Calling a Muslim an Infidel
bulletChapter 327 : Prohibition of Obscenity
bulletChapter 328 : Undesirability of Pretentiousness and Exaggeration during Conversation
bulletChapter 329 : Abomination of Self-Condemnation
bulletChapter 330 : Undesirability of Calling Grapes 'Al-Karm'
bulletChapter 331 : Prohibition of Describing the Charms of a Woman to a man without a valid reason approved by the Shari'ah 
bulletChapter 332 : Abomination of saying- "Forgive me if you wish, O Allah!" 
bulletChapter 333 : Abomination of saying- "What Allah Wills and so-and-so Wills" 
bulletChapter 334 : Abomination of Holding Conversation after 'Isha' (Night) Prayer
bulletChapter 335 : Prohibition of Refusal by a Woman when her Husband calls her to his Bed
bulletChapter 336 : Prohibition of Observing an Optional Saum (Fast) by a Woman without the Permission of her Husband
bulletChapter 337 : Prohibition of raising one's Head before the Imam
bulletChapter 338 : Prohibition of Placing the hands on the sides during As-Salat (The Prayer)
bulletChapter 339 : Abomination of Joining As-Salat (The Prayer) when the Food is ready or when one is in desperate need to answer the call of Nature
bulletChapter 340 : Prohibition of raising one's Eyes towards the sky during As-Salat (The Prayer)
bulletChapter 341 : Undesirability of Glancing in one Direction of the other during Prayer 
bulletChapter 342 : Prohibition of facing the Graves during Salat (Prayer) 
bulletChapter 343 : Prohibition of passing in front of a Worshipper while he is offering Salat (Prayer) 
bulletChapter 344 : Undesirability of offering optional Prayer after the announcement of Iqamah 
bulletChapter 345 : Abomination of Selecting Friday for Fasting 
bulletChapter 346 : Prohibition of Extending Fast beyond one Day
bulletChapter 347 : Prohibition of Sitting on the Graves
bulletChapter 348 : Prohibition of Plastering and Building over the Graves 
bulletChapter 349 : Prohibition for a Slave to run away from his Master
bulletChapter 350 : Undesirability of Intercession in Hudud
bulletChapter 351 : Prohibition of Relieving Nature on the Paths 
bulletChapter 352 : Prohibition of Urinating into Stagnant Water
bulletChapter 353 : Prohibition of giving preference to Children over one another in giving Gifts, etc.
bulletChapter 354 : Prohibition of Mourning beyond Three Days (For Women)
bulletChapter 355 : Prohibition of Malpractices in Commerce
bulletChapter 356 : Prohibition of Squandering Wealth
bulletChapter 357 : Prohibition of Pointing with a Weapon at another Brother in Faith
bulletChapter 358 : Undesirability of Leaving the Mosque without offering Salat (Prayer) after the Adhan has been Proclaimed
bulletChapter 359 : Undesirability of Rejecting the Gift of Perfume
bulletChapter 360 : Undesirability of Praising a Person in his Presence
bulletChapter 361 : Undesirability of departing from or coming to a Place stricken by a Epidemic
bulletChapter 362 : Prohibition of Magic
bulletChapter 363 : Prohibition of Carrying the Qur'an into the Land of Enemy
bulletChapter 364 : Prohibition of using Utensils made of Gold and Silver
bulletChapter 365 : Prohibition of Wearing Saffron-Colored Dress
bulletChapter 366 : Prohibition of observing silence from Dawn till Night
bulletChapter 367 : Prohibition of attributing wrong Fatherhood
bulletChapter 368 : Prohibition of doing that which Allah and His Messenger have Prohibited
bulletChapter 369 : Expiation for the violation of Commandments of Allah