QUICK SUGGESTIONS:
-Make continual du'aa asking Rabbil-'Aalameen to make your intentions sincere, pure, and correct upon the Sunnah in this particular process and of course, in all matters in general.
-Read and reflect on the Share'ah of marriage in Islaam.
-Be confident in your hope and trust of the promises that Allah, the Ever Merciful and Compassionate has made to the obedient believer who seeks to get closer to Him by submitting to what is legislated and commanded of us as revealed in Al-Qur'aan and Ahadeeth of our Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam.
-And then, do what, be patient.
-Don't worry about the pressures upon you. Qadarallaahu wa maa shaa afa'ala.
-Tell whomever (including yourself) that you are doing the best you can to obey your Lord by being dutiful to Him first and of course, DO your very best to fulfill your duty to Allah, azza wajal, after that, respect and obey your parents, by following the commandments of your Lord in this very important process.
-Ask whoever is pressuring you for their forgiveness if they feel you have harmed or disrespected them in any way.
-Be sincere.
-Don't let the comments make you angry.
-Seek refuge in Allah when you feel frustrated.
-Make du'aa immediately and fight the shaythaan by calling on Allahul-Azeez-ul-Aztheem for help and relief.
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